Hey guys, I know it's been a while I'm so sorry but today I have a new post for you and it's written by one of my good friends so yeah, enjoy. If you want to follow him on twitter here it is.
Kissing...
What's the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear it?
Love?
Passion?
Sex?
Well, kissing, in my opinion, it's a way of expressing love, like no word can. And when you think of kissing, you think of feeling. And if you don't feel it, then there's no point in kissing. A kiss can have some categories or phases, leading to different feelings.
For me, when I kiss, I give everything. I do it like it's the last time I'll ever do it. Sending shivers down my spine. Holding grip on the girl's facial skin. Making eye contact every chance I can.
Obviously, I don't kiss everyone like that. That's when we introduce categories. Like friends, family, friendship, relationship, etc.
Now the phases... We obviously start with a friend. That person who makes you want to give your fullest on everything. The one that, with only a glance, can make your day the brightest one. With just one touch gives your skin all those goosebumps that makes you feel excited. That person, is the one that gives the word "kissing" another meaning.
With one kiss of that person, your world just stops and stares. It's like if that kiss makes all of your internal organs celebrate of joy for you. Because you finally found the one. It's like you never wanna let go. Like it's just you and that person, alone, with a world waiting for it to be discovered by both of you.
Also, another feeling that kissing gives you, is the feeling of being safe. For example:
Imagine you're going through hard times and nobody understands you but that special person... When you kiss, it feels almost like one of those big tight hugs that takes you into a state of full calmness and confidence. And you just wanna kiss that person until it all goes away.
But there are also sad kisses... The ones, like I mentioned at the beginning, with no feeling. The ones people use to play with the feelings of other people. Those that, for one person are like heaven, and for the other, are like a cup of coffee: an everyday routine. Those that can give happiness, and in the next second, break you into pieces.
If you kiss, you love. And when you love, you give the other person the opportunity to break your heart into pieces.
And by a matter of fact, if your heart is broken, you need to say goodbye. And when we say "goodbye" we usually do it with a kiss. But this one is like no other kiss. This one is special. Special because it's actually the last one. And it doesn't matter if it's a friend, a partner, a member of the family or a known one... A goodbye kiss, is a goodbye kiss. And when you give it, you let every feeling with it. Every emotion. Every laugh. Every cry. Every memory that you had with that person, in only that one kiss.
Kissing is something serious. With it, you can change someone's life. Whether for good or for bad, with it you can express what your heart is yelling at your brain, without saying a word. You can inspire. Motivate. Build, with only a kiss.
So, before going out there kissing everybody, think twice...
What do you want to express with a kiss?
Or
In what way do you want to change that person's life?
This is my way of seen the kiss.
Sincerely: Yetzel González.
10/28/2013
8/30/2013
Freshman Advice
Hello there, it's been a LONG time since I wrote my last post but here I am again.
So I've seen on twitter and other sites that a lot of you are freshman this year so I thought it would be good to give some advice because I know that being a freshman could be pretty scary.
TIPS:
So I've seen on twitter and other sites that a lot of you are freshman this year so I thought it would be good to give some advice because I know that being a freshman could be pretty scary.
TIPS:
- Act Natural: Don't let them know that you're scared just act like you don't care at all, act like you are comfortable with all and smile to everybody because c'mon smiles are free and it can brighten up someone's day. Don't act bitchy either, and if someone say a comment just ignore them or take it as a joke for example if someone tells you: "You're fat" you answer "I know man that pizza that I ate yesterday was damn good". Because what they're trying to do is get you mad and you won't give them what they want if you keep acting like you don't care they will leave you alone.
- Don't be afraid to ask: If you don't understand something in class just raise your hand or go to the teacher and ask her/him. Teachers are supposed to help you but if they are not good teachers enough and don't want to explain again just go to one of the kids in class there's nothing wrong with that. Oh and if you don't know where your classroom is just ask a teacher, that's pretty normal the first days of school.
- Lunch Time: Okay I know this can be really stressful and scary but you'll survive. If you don't like the food in the cafeteria, you can bring food from your house. But if you DO eat at the cafeteria and you're worried about the "you can't sit with us" haha c'mon guys that was just a movie, in real life they'll not be that rude but to make you feel more comfortable just take a look around and the ones you think that look the nicest just go and ask them don't be afraid just be like: "hey, can I sit here?" If they tell you that you can't, don't feel bad they're just stupid people. Also another tip for this is, if you think about it you can sit wherever you want, that's a public place right? so if you don't want to ask just sit there and if they give you a weird look you tell them: "Oh sorry, I thought this was a public place, my name is____"and introduce yourself, BUT don't say it bitchy just smile.
- Social Life: It's good to make friends so you don't feel alone. Just go to one of the girls/boys in your class that you would like to talk to and introduce yourself. Now I know keeping a conversation could be really difficult for some of you but some of the topics you can ask them are: how was summer, if they're enjoying school, you can ask about something of the class and then you keep talking don't be shy because what's the worst that could happen?
- Study: Guys it is REALLY important to study hard, I know I know is SUPER boring but it keeps you distracted and active and it's worth it because when you see the good grades you feel so proud of yourself and your family too. And also you're preparing for college or high school or even middle school so it's gonna get harder. So yeah remember to study and do the homeworks.
Ok guys those are some tips but the MOST important one is, if someone is bullying you PLEASE talk to somebody because bullying is something really really serious and believe me there's someone out there that cares. Talk to your friends or parents or even teachers. Maybe you think that they're busy and they don't care but they do. If you don't want to talk to them for some reason, then up there where it says "links" those are the sites where you can find me so PLEASE talk to me I will try to help you ok?
So that pretty much concludes my post don't worry too much about school that's just a time of your life that will end and I'm sure you'll survive. If it makes feel better I'll tell you, I SURVIVED SCHOOL haha and here where I live are pretty mean like when you're a freshman they all go around you and make you dance a very embarrassing dance that we do here and if you don't do it they throw eggs, water balloons or even shaving cream and sometimes if you even do the dance they do it either way and I survived to that.
So I know you can, please remember that if you need to talk with somebody I'm here for you.
Follow my blog I'll try to be here more often
I love you, byeeeeee.
6/23/2013
Things to do to avoid depression
Hello there.
I thought it was good to write something quick since I'm doing nothing, and that's because last week I got a surgery in my coccyx, I had a pilonidal cyst so I can't even sit. I have to be laying down all the time or standing up, it really sucks. It can get very boring and depressive being like this because you can't hang out with your friends, maybe go shopping or to the movies. Also is summertime so you want to go to the beach but you can't. You can get anxious because you want to get fine fast but if you get anxious is worst. I already have been depressed and I hated it,I don't want to be depressed ever again. So I decided to show you a couple of ways to have fun even if you can't get out of your house.
1. Talk with your mom/dad/sister/brother or call your friends or boyfriend/girlfriend if you have and tell them to visit you. This will keep you entertained during the day and you will get closer to them.
2. Rent or buy your favorite movies so you can have a marathon of all of them. You could have a Harry Potter marathon if you like Harry Potter or any kind of movie that you like. Or if you're not a movie person then watch your favorite series on tv.
3. Go on your social websites like twitter, facebook, tumblr, all that stuff if you have.
4. You can start a blog and write about what you like or your thoughts on something, that is up to you. If you don't like to write, you can draw if you can, or make bracelets and maybe sell them so you get money.
5. Find something new to learn online, it can be other language that you don't know, it can be sign language, or play an instrument.
6. If you'd like you can fix your nails and do something really nice and creative.
7. You can search videos on youtube of comedy, beauty or diy whatever you enjoy the most and watch them. (That's what I do most of the times haha)
8. You can also plan exciting things to do when you recover like go travelling, go to the gym or something that you like.
9. If you have a pet you can play with them or if you have a little brother or sister you can also play with them.
Those are some things you can do if you can't get out of your house. Make sure to eat healthy though because you're not going to be doing any exercise basically so you won't burn a lot of calories.
Also if you can go outside but you don't know what to do and you don't want to get depressed I'll give you some things to do.
1. Call your friends and go to the beach since is summertime and you want to enjoy the nice weather.
2. Invite your friends to your house and make a BBQ and have a good time.
3. Go shopping, to the cinema, go out for dinner. Or you can go to the gym so you stay fit for the summer.
4. Go walk your dogs if you have and once you're there go buy an ice cream.
5. Make new friends and meet new people, that's always good.
6. You can take dance lessons or drama, draw, sing I don't know any art that you like.
I don't know, there are many ways to have fun in the vacations even if you can't go outside. So I hope this helped some of you out there.
Bye :) x
I thought it was good to write something quick since I'm doing nothing, and that's because last week I got a surgery in my coccyx, I had a pilonidal cyst so I can't even sit. I have to be laying down all the time or standing up, it really sucks. It can get very boring and depressive being like this because you can't hang out with your friends, maybe go shopping or to the movies. Also is summertime so you want to go to the beach but you can't. You can get anxious because you want to get fine fast but if you get anxious is worst. I already have been depressed and I hated it,I don't want to be depressed ever again. So I decided to show you a couple of ways to have fun even if you can't get out of your house.
1. Talk with your mom/dad/sister/brother or call your friends or boyfriend/girlfriend if you have and tell them to visit you. This will keep you entertained during the day and you will get closer to them.
2. Rent or buy your favorite movies so you can have a marathon of all of them. You could have a Harry Potter marathon if you like Harry Potter or any kind of movie that you like. Or if you're not a movie person then watch your favorite series on tv.
3. Go on your social websites like twitter, facebook, tumblr, all that stuff if you have.
4. You can start a blog and write about what you like or your thoughts on something, that is up to you. If you don't like to write, you can draw if you can, or make bracelets and maybe sell them so you get money.
5. Find something new to learn online, it can be other language that you don't know, it can be sign language, or play an instrument.
6. If you'd like you can fix your nails and do something really nice and creative.
7. You can search videos on youtube of comedy, beauty or diy whatever you enjoy the most and watch them. (That's what I do most of the times haha)
8. You can also plan exciting things to do when you recover like go travelling, go to the gym or something that you like.
9. If you have a pet you can play with them or if you have a little brother or sister you can also play with them.
Those are some things you can do if you can't get out of your house. Make sure to eat healthy though because you're not going to be doing any exercise basically so you won't burn a lot of calories.
Also if you can go outside but you don't know what to do and you don't want to get depressed I'll give you some things to do.
1. Call your friends and go to the beach since is summertime and you want to enjoy the nice weather.
2. Invite your friends to your house and make a BBQ and have a good time.
3. Go shopping, to the cinema, go out for dinner. Or you can go to the gym so you stay fit for the summer.
4. Go walk your dogs if you have and once you're there go buy an ice cream.
5. Make new friends and meet new people, that's always good.
6. You can take dance lessons or drama, draw, sing I don't know any art that you like.
I don't know, there are many ways to have fun in the vacations even if you can't go outside. So I hope this helped some of you out there.
Bye :) x
5/25/2013
I don't want to be part of the heap, I want to shine among the heap.
May 22, 2013. 10:40 pm
I don't know, I don't know what I'm feeling right now. I felt the need of write how I feel. I was watching "The Perks of Being a Wallflower" and somehow it inspired me and I think I found the answers to many question that I have had during my whole life. I've always been super different from my family, I'm such a big dreamer and I always want to do different things. And I hate it because every time I want to do something they are judging me and saying things like "Oh! you are crazy" or something like that but NO! It's just that I don't want to be like the other people I want to be different and they don't understand that. There are just three people that I can say they understand me and they never judge me, those are friends of mine. I want all my dreams to come true,I want to travel across the world I want to skydive, I want to do all the things that are in my mind but I don't do because I'm afraid of what my family and friends are going to think. I honestly don't care about the other people I just care about my family and friends. I really want to have something to tell to my sons, I really want to say " Oh! I did that and it was awesome" or "Oh yeah! I did that and it wasn't awesome it was horrible but at least I tried and I learned". Because that's what life is about, you have to learn new things, you know what, life is so short and time runs fast, it doesn't wait for you and it wont, so you have to run with it, you have to live without caring about what your family or friends are going to say and at the end of the day if you think about it, they are not going to leave you, they are the persons that no matter what, they are going to be with you. So if you do the things you want to do they must help you to go through it, it doesn't matter if it's a bad or a good moment, just go with the flow and do it. And if one of them leave you then s/he wasn't supposed to be in your life.
I want to change, I don't want to be part of the heap, I want to shine among the heap. Some days ago I thought I didn't know what to do with my life but I did know because when you say "Oh I don't know what to do with my life" there is something that is telling you to do this or that and you have to follow that voice inside you, you do know what you want is just that you are afraid to fail or you are afraid of what others are going to think. I don't want that to happen in my life I want to follow my dreams and do new things. I want to throw away all these insecurities that I have so I can learn to love myself.
That's all for today xx
May 22, 2013. 11:30pm
I don't know, I don't know what I'm feeling right now. I felt the need of write how I feel. I was watching "The Perks of Being a Wallflower" and somehow it inspired me and I think I found the answers to many question that I have had during my whole life. I've always been super different from my family, I'm such a big dreamer and I always want to do different things. And I hate it because every time I want to do something they are judging me and saying things like "Oh! you are crazy" or something like that but NO! It's just that I don't want to be like the other people I want to be different and they don't understand that. There are just three people that I can say they understand me and they never judge me, those are friends of mine. I want all my dreams to come true,I want to travel across the world I want to skydive, I want to do all the things that are in my mind but I don't do because I'm afraid of what my family and friends are going to think. I honestly don't care about the other people I just care about my family and friends. I really want to have something to tell to my sons, I really want to say " Oh! I did that and it was awesome" or "Oh yeah! I did that and it wasn't awesome it was horrible but at least I tried and I learned". Because that's what life is about, you have to learn new things, you know what, life is so short and time runs fast, it doesn't wait for you and it wont, so you have to run with it, you have to live without caring about what your family or friends are going to say and at the end of the day if you think about it, they are not going to leave you, they are the persons that no matter what, they are going to be with you. So if you do the things you want to do they must help you to go through it, it doesn't matter if it's a bad or a good moment, just go with the flow and do it. And if one of them leave you then s/he wasn't supposed to be in your life.
I want to change, I don't want to be part of the heap, I want to shine among the heap. Some days ago I thought I didn't know what to do with my life but I did know because when you say "Oh I don't know what to do with my life" there is something that is telling you to do this or that and you have to follow that voice inside you, you do know what you want is just that you are afraid to fail or you are afraid of what others are going to think. I don't want that to happen in my life I want to follow my dreams and do new things. I want to throw away all these insecurities that I have so I can learn to love myself.
That's all for today xx
May 22, 2013. 11:30pm
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